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Welcome~
Life,
Love and Money are all such essentials in the regular day-to-day…
When
was the last time that you did or didn’t think about your life, love or your
money? What is life without love?
How about life without money? What is going on in your life? What
would you like to share? Do you need some advice?
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EDITORIAL OF THE WEEK
Monday,
April 24, 2006
Author: Kimlee, Financial & Advice Specialist
The 3 "P’s" Will Help You Achieve Your Goals
Whenever I have attempted to achieve a meaningful goal in my life, I have
discovered that I need to apply what I started calling the 3 "P’s" to bring
sanity and reassurance to the process. The 3 "P’s" are Patience, Practice, and
Persistence.
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These qualities can be applied to anything you are attempting to do that
requires work, whether it is finishing a college degree or trying to quit
smoking. Let’s take a look at how these apply to the realization of your
financial goals.
Patience - Achieving your financial goals and dreams will not happen overnight.
As Napoleon Hill said, "You need a plan, and then you need to work your plan."
It will take time to create your plan, work your plan, review your plan on a
regular basis to see if it’s still on target, and modify plans as required. As
much as we would all really love to accomplish our goals in a few years, this is
an ongoing process and journey.
The best plans will include short term, intermediate, and long-term goals. I
usually call short-term goals those that can be accomplished in 1-2 years. I
place intermediate goals in the 3-5 year range and goals over 5 years are
long-term goals.
We achieve longer-term goals by establishing short-term and intermediate-term
steps to get there. As you accomplish certain milestones, the classification of
a goal will shift from long-term to intermediate to short-term, etc.
As you review and modify plans you will probably discover goals you forgot. New
goals will come along as you move through life and circumstances change.
The planning and execution of your goals all require Patience. By establishing
more immediate goals, you will experience the gratification and reward of
accomplishment. You will also find that your journey probably won’t take a
straight path toward your goals. This also requires Patience as you will have to
deal with the unexpected and cut yourself some slack when you veer off your
path.
I can’t say I’m the most patient person in the world. I’ve really had to work on
this quality!
Practice – We can all remember some of the things we did for the first time when
we were young and how awkward we felt. Sometimes, even dangerous! How graceful
were you the first time you tried to swim... or, when you rode a bike the first
time did you make it without falling? Even when we learned to walk, we fell down
over and over again.
Start observing children on a regular basis. We can learn a tremendous lesson in
the use of Practice ‘with a smile’ when we watch younger ones learning something
new.
We all admire the skills of Olympic ice skaters, pro-golfers, and fine concert
pianists. They didn’t acquire their skills overnight. They had to Practice hours
on end, for years to achieve their dreams. And, once they became the best they
could be, they still continue to Practice. An ongoing journey.
Practice has a magical quality -- the more you do it, the easier that thing
becomes that you are working on!
Persistence – This is the quality you need to have when you’ve lost your
Patience and you are sick and tired of Practice. It is Persistence that keeps
you going when you might feel like giving up. Ever have one of those days or
moments when you feel you just can’t take another step? It is this same quality
that drives a young child to get up and start over when they fall down each time
they try to walk.
As you Persist, you will find yourself moving further along your journey. The
road will get bumpy, but your Persistence will keep you moving ahead. As you
achieve important milestones and goals, you will find your resolve and
commitment deepening. It works in a wonderful cycle as you find yourself
becoming even more Persistent. It is this characteristic that will keep you on
your path toward your goals and it is this quality that won’t allow anything to
get in your way of achieving what is important to you.
It is a useful exercise to evaluate your goals on a regular basis. Sometimes our
Persistence might keep us working on a goal that is no longer of value in our
life. I have found myself locked into doing something because I had it as a goal
for so many years, and so I continued to persist to achieve it. I’ve learned
that we can’t allow ourselves to be held hostage by goals we’ve outgrown. If we
develop Persistence as an attribute, we just need to make sure we are following
the right path.
The 3 "P’s" work together in a synergistic way. You become more Persistent and
determined because you are working on something that really matters to you. It’s
difficult to feel determined and persist to accomplish something you aren’t
passionate about.
You will find that the more Persistent you are, the more Patience you will need
because we can’t control life. Events often don’t occur in an ideal time table
that we have designed. We build our Patience muscle through continual Practice
and developing the ability to accept life as it occurs. Yet, with continual
Persistence, you can guide your ship. We cant control the wind, but we can
control the ship.
have
the courage to question & challenge the status quo... refuse to
accept "traditional" thinking and answers as fact....
~Kimlee
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