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Back To Basics 101
With Kimlee
Simplifying Your Life
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 Welcome~
BACK TO BASICS 101 is all
about getting back to the basic essentials of everyday living. From Finances,
Organizing, Health, Parenting, and Fashion/Beauty you will find tips on how to
re-organize, re-evaluate, and re-do things for more simple existence...Simplify
Your Life!
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EDITORIAL OF THE WEEK
Wednesday,
July 9, 2008
Author: Kimlee, Financial & Advice Specialist
Relationships 101
Noone is perfect, but whether you are a man looking for the best
woman for you, or a woman looking for Mr. Right,--take a look at
these top 6 qualities in order to have a good stable relationship:)
6) Nag free. A good woman or man is going to be nag free.
Nagging is an ineffective method of trying to get your loved one to
perform a task you desire. Trust me – it doesn’t work and often will
have the opposite of its intended affect.
5) Supportive. Are you supportive? What does it mean to be
supportive? Do you belittle your loved one or do you help him/her to
feel good about him/herself his/her job, activities? Your loved one
will be much more respectful of you if you are supportive. Even when
you don’t agree with him/her – respectfully let him/her know you
don’t agree – then support support support anyway. Otherwise, if
he/she has difficulties – he/she will feel as though you’re adding
to his troubles.
4) Build up your loved one. There’s no quicker way to build
resentment in your loved one than to criticize – especially in front
of others. On the flip side – try genuinely complementing your loved
one in front of other people. Your loved one will glow with
admiration toward you and you’ll feel his/her appreciation as love.
3) Respect. A good partner will try to treat his/her lover
with respect. How? Much of learning how to be respectful toward your
love one has to do with the way you talk to him/her. The old phrase
“It’s not so much what you say but how you say it” should become
your motto. This doesn’t mean you need to be careful what you say to
your love one– just be respectful in the way you say it.
2) Communicate. Ironically, good communication between men
and women can be quite frustrating. However, a good partner will
seek to discover what’s on his/her other partner's mind and find a
way to express him/herself in a calm manner. Take the time to have a
"talk". Often, men and women will make a joint decision – while the
man thinks she’s in agreement with him – but only to discover later
that she thought the decision was a bad idea. Talk it out!
1) Be pleasant. Work to be pleasant toward your partner.
Don’t be one of those people who makes everyone around you feel bad
just because you’ve had a hard day. Good things will come from being
pleasant. It’s a decision – just decide to be pleasant. But if you
can’t be pleasant – make a decision not to bring your loved one down
with you.Have the courage to question &
challenge the status quo...
refuse to accept "traditional" thinking and answers
as fact....
~Kimlee
kimlee@lieconomy.com
http://www.backtobasics101.com
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